11.28.08
Posted in Uncategorized at 12:41 pm by Luis
Can you recall the last time you were really angry at someone? So much so that you were physically shaken just at the thought of them?
Rarely does this feeling of anger help us in getting what we want. Often, it will work against us, resulting in more pain, unnecessarily.
Even the most gentle of personalities can temporarily turn into a vindictive rascal, if pushed far enough.
For sake of simplicity, we will use anger as the target emotion to overcome. Keep in mind that it can be applied to overcome other non-conducive and intense emotions such as jealousy, guilt, hatred, regret and fear.
Why Do We Feel Like Crap?
Anger doesnt feel very good. Its pretty gross, actually. Our stomach tightens-up, we become sweaty, we react - instead of act - in survival mode.
And anger clouds our judgment causing us to respond wildly out of emotion. Weve all been there. Sometimes, it can get so intense that we tremble passionately while feeling strong hate towards other people.
And when we cool down, we would wonder how we allowed ourselves to get in such a messed up state in the first place.
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11.27.08
Posted in Uncategorized at 1:49 pm by Luis
Anxiety is a state where you feel nervous and tough to accept or react to certain situation. In this state, you can end up with many ill effects on your mind and body. Your mind cannot accept the fact and you feel as if everything is lost. You have to get very tough on your anxiety to maintain your body and mind healthy.
- You should never take any situation seriously that is you should be open to any kind of change in your life. Everything cannot be predicted before itself. There are many issues that arise unpredicted. Take all the things easily and move on in your life.
- Instead of going for medication which can have the unpleasant effects, go for the meditation practice which relaxes your body and mind.
- Learn the cause for your anxiety and try working on the cause so that next time when you come across similar situation you will not react.
- Know your expectations. Prioritize them and try to fulfill your expectation by working hard. The problem of anxiety occurs when you dont get the result which is expected. Put all your efforts to reach your expectations.
- Never react to anything. Think twice and take an appropriate decision which helps you in leading a peaceful life.
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11.25.08
Posted in Uncategorized at 2:17 pm by Luis
It is a rare person who lives without fear of one kind or another.
You may fear heights, or spiders, or new situations, or rejectionwhatever your fears may be, you can either let those fears [Overcoming Fear] form boundaries beyond which you cant move or grow, or you can face them head-on and allow them to become opportunities to move into new places in your life. The choice is truly yours.
Fear is not always a bad thing. There are obviously some things about which we should be afraid and in which we should exercise appropriate caution.
But if our fears control us, or prevent us from taking certain risks, we allow those fears to define us, to limit us only to courses of action that we deem sufficiently safe, and as a result, many of us never achieve our potentialor we cheat ourselves out of the richness that life could otherwise hold for us.
1. Realize that everyone is afraid of something.
Others may not fear the same things you fear, but everyone fears something, and understanding this can help you not to feel isolated in your fear. Youre not alone, and the fact that you are fearful in some area doesnt make you a weak person.
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11.24.08
Posted in Uncategorized at 12:50 pm by Luis
If you are in search of perfect ways to make your life satisfied and happy, start by doing the things that makes you happier.
Though it sounds easy, it is not as simple as it seems. However, you can make it easier if you make yourself one of your top priorities.
Many people neglect themselves, because they feel that it would be selfish if they gave themselves top priority.
While it is absolutely essential to take care of others, it is just as compulsory to look after yourself. Here are a few simple ways to make you feel happier:
1. Do something creative and learn new skills
Whenever you are feeling stressed out, do something fun that you havent ever done in your life. Nothing is more exciting than doing something new.
2. Celebrate success
Celebrate success in a manner that can strengthen your relationship with people. Having good social and personal relationships can help prevent excess stress.
3. Smile always
Always wear a smile on your face, greet people you meet and treat each day of your life as the most important day of your life.
By following these few simple things, you could discover yourself a new, find out who you are and what matters most to you to ensure a happy life.
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11.21.08
Posted in Uncategorized at 12:50 pm by Luis
An impression is an effect, emotion or representation gained as a result of experience.
As the saying goes, first impression is the best impression: try to make an everlasting impression [Positive Impression] and imagine that it will last forever, whenever you meet important people.
Pay attention to every minute detail to ensure you always leave your best impression. The steps to follow to make a lasting impression include:
- Have strong emotions: The stronger your emotions, the better will be your impression. Try to arouse a sense of positive emotion in the other person to create a better impact.
- Be practical: To make a lasting impression, be practical in the examples that you use to talk to them. Relate your topics with everyday life examples so that the other person will remember you.
- Be unique: Try to be different from others. Think differently from what others are doing to ensure you are clearly noticed and are appreciated. Be confident in what you are thinking and never be afraid to choose a different path. Be creative and imaginative and think differently to make a remarkable impression.
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